Asian Dating World

I run a free Asian dating site, but that doesn’t mean you can freely disrespect the ladies on the site. I’m always amazed at how some men feel that an Asian site equates to an adult site. Consequently they feel they can say or ask anything of an Asian lady before they get to know them as a person with unique and individual qualities.

Not all Asian ladies, just like not all American ladies, can be stereotyped as ladies of the night. The vast majority of the ladies are looking for a man who will treat them with respect and is willing to share a life of love and happiness. If a lady does join one of our sites who wants to trade money for pleasure of the flesh, her account is deleted when reported to the admin.

I’m not a prune. If two people get to know each other and consent to venture into a tingling discussion that lights up their passion, so be it. The operative word being “consent.” It is when a man or woman assumes that they can say or ask anything without knowing if the other person is willing to engage in an intimate conversation that makes it an irresponsible assumption that is offensive and wrong. The only way you can be sure if someone is willing, is first get to know them. That takes time.

The “he said, she said” scenario has been played out more than once on my site. I hate getting into the middle of these disputes. Usually my first recourse is simply ask the two people not to engage in any conversation in the future. If it continues and I can’t decide who is stepping beyond the bounds of what is acceptable to the other, I will ask them both to leave the site. However, usually before we get to that stage, one or the other usually leaves on their own.

Showing respect and getting to know the other person should be the main ingredients in finding love. If you happen to meet someone who makes your hormones flair up, it doesn’t mean they want to be disrespected, especially if she is a lady. Show respect and get to know them for who they are and the rest will come at the appropriate time. The rewards of first getting to know someone whom you have the hots for, is worth the wait if that person ends up being the one you will be with for the rest of your life.